Effective Tips for Keeping Conversations Engaging
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0:20 Play Reminds Me of
Conversations can hit awkward pauses, but there are ways to keep them lively. One effective method is to use the phrase "That reminds me of..." to steer the conversation into new topics, encouraging connections through shared experiences.
0:54 Ask Open-Ended Questions
To avoid one-word answers that lead to silence, ask open-ended questions. For instance, instead of asking if someone likes their city, ask how they feel about it. Using "why" can also deepen the discussion, revealing personal motivations.
1:40 Use Revival Questions
When conversations stall, revival questions can help. Asking how people know each other or inquiring about someone's story can reignite dialogue. For familiar acquaintances, asking about future plans can keep the conversation fresh.
2:37 Make a Complimentary Cold Read
Complimentary cold reads can spark discussions. Make observations about someone's demeanor, like their friendliness or fitness, which can lead them to share more about themselves, creating new conversational pathways.
3:00 Flip the Script and Let Them Talk
Shift the focus to the other person by becoming comfortable with silence. Allow pauses, and they may fill them with comments or questions. Mirroring their last words can prompt them to elaborate, fostering deeper conversations.
What is a good way to start a conversation when it stalls?
Using revival questions like "How do you guys all know one another?" can effectively restart a stalled conversation.
How can I avoid one-word answers in conversations?
Ask open-ended questions to encourage more expansive responses, such as "How do you like Toronto?" instead of straightforward yes or no questions.
What should I do if I feel awkward in a conversation?
Embrace the silence for a moment; often the other person will fill the gap, or you can reflect back on what they just said to encourage them to share more.